Reasons Why Kids Leave the Church After High School

August 15, 2007 |

Posted by michaelp · Filed Under Problems in the Church, Christian Life 

To add to our ongoing conversation about why people leave the church, another article reviews this phenomenon:

Here is how it breaks down. Why do kids leave the church after high school?

• Wanted a break from church: 27%
• Found church members judgmental or hypocritical: 26%
• Moved to college: 25%
• Tied up with work: 23%
• Moved too far away from home church: 22%
• Too busy: 22%
• Felt disconnected to people at church: 20%
• Disagreed with church’s stance on political/social issues: 18%
• Spent more time with friends outside church: 17%
• Only went before to please others: 17%

See the rest here. (And don’t ask me how all of these ad up to 100)


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  1. sthomsen on August 16, 2007 12:21 pm

    Apparently, the interviewees were allowed to choose more than one answer. “I’ll take that one and that one and… oh yeah, that one too.” :-)

  2. sthomsen on August 16, 2007 12:24 pm

    This raises another interesting question about the Biblical qualifications for leaders. Paul specifies that leaders must have believing children. If my kid leaves the faith, should that disqualify me from leadership?

  3. cmichaelpatton on August 16, 2007 1:22 pm

    You know, I read that last night in Titus. I would imagine this is the case. But I really think it has to do with children who are under the house. In other words, you are not responsible for their beliefs after they leave home. Otherwise David was in big trouble with Solomon. :)

  4. sthomsen on August 16, 2007 1:41 pm

    Does Paul say the kids have to act like they believe (behave nicely, perhaps). Or does he say they must actually believe? If the latter, then they wouldn’t fall away, would they?

    As far as New Covenant qualifications for leaders goes, David had a number of problems. Multiple wives, adultery and murder among them.

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